Hello, I'm an advice, sfw blog that focuses on helping people and giving people a safe haven to talk. Feel free to talk here, vent or be friends! you can talk to me here or on kik! I'd love to talk to you and be friends, and i think youre lovely c:
that’s lovely thank you!
i’m posting this so my followers can see it if they ever need help xxx thank you
About a year and a half ago, my ex told me that happy things disgusted him. At that right moment, I wanted to be anything but happy. I thought that if I was a little depressed and if I had scars on my wrists, he would love me again. I went through a huge depression that lasted for about 6 months. I remember that all I would want was to either cut my skin or eat pizza. When I think about it, I was really stupid. Not only it is odd to try to change yourself to please others but this guy literally wanted me to suffer and I was OKAY WITH THAT. I think the meaning of life is to live it and be happy. I honestly don’t know what I’d do without happiness and to see someone smiling is the most attractive thing. Happy things make me happy and I love happy people. I’m not saying that sad things disgust me but I’d rather be happy than feel as shitty as I did for him. If you need to change to please someone, don’t. Don’t because you are beautiful in your own amazing way and it simply means that you deserve something else; something better.
Hi Dear! I really like Your blog! And I am following You for sure :) I like fashion A LOT, so You are very welcome to my fashion website :) There is link in my blog, under the title.. If You will visit it would amazing if You would look at the ads there on the left.. And you need to browse there a little bit.. This would massively help me to pay for my studies. Thank You for help very much! Hope You'll enjoy my site!! :)) Much Love, Evelyn!!! xoxo
“I asked my ex, now good friend, if she would ever have an open relationship and she said, “No, I don’t think I could do that” then after a pause and a smile, “but what about love affair friendships?” She went on to describe an impenetrable fortress of female friendship, her own group of best mates who’d known each other since school and had supported and loved each other through almost all of their lifetimes. They sounded far more bonded to, and in love with one another, than their respective husbands. It struck me that we don’t have the language to reflect the diversity and breadth of connections we experience. Why is sex the thing we tend to define a relationship by, when in fact it can be simple casual fun without a deep emotional transaction? Why do we say “just friends” when, for some of us, a friendship goes deeper? Can we define a new currency of commitment that celebrates and values this? Instead of having multiple confusing interpretations of the same word, could we have different words? What if we viewed our relationships as a pyramid structure with our primary partner at the top and a host of lovers, friends, spiritual soul mates, colleagues, and acquaintances beneath that?”—Rosie Wilby, “You’re More Polyamorous Than You Think” (via foutue)
“No, I don’t like you, I just thought you were cool enough to kick it. Got a beach house I could sell you in Idaho. Since you think I don’t love you, I just thought you were cute, that’s why I kissed you”—Frank ocean - thinkin bout you (via ogstonerboner)